Example! I don't know why, i often end up being "used" by my own friend i never know do they do it intentionally or un-intentionally. it sometime pissed me off, but i keep it in silence. I'm a person who avoid any drama of confrontation. they texted me and asked where i am, i answered the text by saying where i am and what i'm going to do .. then they initiate to join, with assumption i have to pick one up. (this part i don't mind) .. after i'm on my way to pick one up .. suddenly the text appear "can you pick me at my office lobby?" WHAT?! i told to that person "why don't i meet you at bus stop across your office??
Then we met, when the one get on my vehicle this person start to play with it phone? do i look like a taxi driver to you?? if you're my parents who's doing it i'm ok .. but, this person doesn't even have any contribution on this car .. that's just rude!! treating the owner of the car like taxi driver ... for me is un-polite! I don't even ask to share a gasoline with this person, how could this person do this! Then we continue to our next destination, i tried to be polite by having some conversation ... but it turns out this person can't get off from it's cell phone .. MY GODNESS!! it seems this person is the only one who own smartphone! Blaaaahhh ....
That moment, i made promise to myself, if this person ask me to hang out with the one, i will try to find some excuse not to be near this person. I'm not trying to make any drama, but i have my reason why i don't like people to treat me like that! I tried not to treat people like rubbish .. for me my smartphone is not my everything, real conversation is more meaningful for me rather than keeping your eyes on your display! What's on display is fake, real person is real one!
Question to myself .. can i treat them like they treat me??
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