Your texts are being read, your missed calls are being viewed, your emails are getting sent to spam, and your Facebook messages are being ignored. They are not disappearing in a cyber black hole -- got the point!
*Whatever you do, keep your dignity. Make the extra effort NOW by not looking like a fool and reap the benefits later
story i heard from one of my friend, she's been attached with this guy for more than 4 months or so ... for her it feel like they're dating and the guy has the same feeling. as for me, since I've been heard the story only from this girl so i conclude that this guy is a jerk! well, if i may say this guy is taking an advantage of her. the way he treat this girl, is not like the way a gentlemen who has crush over girl. how can you say it's a date if you pay with separate bill?? and how can he's letting her waiting for him for more than an hour or more (perhaps!) it's obvious he really know that she's in to him!
what can i say to my friend (well, actually lesson learned for me as well.. indirectly) that "you're great.. but he's not interested!" ..
This one is perhaps one of the most relatable: you gather up the balls to express your undying devotion – or mere attraction- to this person only to get rejected with the standard, “Oh you’re sweet… but i can't get into commitment at this moment, all the career stuff and my family matter ...” Or worst, “But i don't want to hurt you, is like everything i do i will end up hurting you…” What sets you apart from the rest of the world is that you don’t just walk away in defeat and go for your next potential obsession; you wallow in misery and refuse to accept rejection. and this woman is allowing this guy to keep rejecting her with different words.
i'm hoping that i will not be in that position, and desperately looking for someone! i will be flattered if someone i liked add me on their FB or their BBM list or asking about my phone. but, what i have in mind is that if that guy is not giving any effort to call me on cell-phone or asking about my number... why bother? if he wants to call me, no matter what he will! i mean, come on guy is simple right?
if he likes you, he will do anything to make the girl realize he's into her isn't it? am i right?
"When we’re two balloons, and together our direction is up, chances are we’ve found the right person. Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life."
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