.. social media ..

for me to begin 2012 in my 5th day of January ... there's no ethic on social media. Gosh!! Can they stop complaining over social media? do they have any friends, where they can shared all the complains and stories?

they even posted their missing spectacle, bag, shoes, book, etc! they chose to posted over social media rather to find it! wondering, if they posted on the Facebook or Twitter will people on their list helping them to find what they're looking for? or they just want people to know they're missing something "precious" to be posted on their wall or timeline ..

I'm using those things, surely to keep me update with the trend topics and hot gossips. used those social media for my boring time while caught on the traffic (badly). at first not to much people complaining or scolding over the social media but now all i can read is complaining, scolding, or even swearing.

some of them even mentioned some name .. not in a good description. i know these days world is like "screaming out loud" to be seen! i mean, there's no ethics there's no rules! the worst case, some of them used twitter to give an "order" to other people to do their tasks!! how rude!! do they know the other technology called cell phone, emails or messenger (whatsapp, blackberry messenger, ping chat, etc) or was it to show the level of power that one person has over the other person? Man!! show some respect for other, dude!

no manner if i may say about these social network or media name it! do they even think before they write anything? some of the words is really hurtful ... cynical, sarcastic or even under-estimate statement as if that person is the only person whose has the "perfect" point of view. *sigh*

from this social media i can read people's mood. sadness, disappointment, getting hurt, heart broken, fall in love, rejected, etc. what can i assume and wonder ... if they get hurt, heart broken or being rejected would be better if they shared it to someone they trust? i mean like bestie, close friends, siblings or parents (perhaps) instead of their making an announcement "yes, i'm broken!" .. "someone just broke my heart!" .. or "un-answered hopes" i mean does it sound like desperate? or they don't have anyone to trust? -- or am i get it wrong?

i understand people has their own definition for what people call SOCIAL MEDIA or NETWORK .. and i have mine!