Your texts are being read, your missed calls are being viewed, your emails are getting sent to spam, and your Facebook messages are being ignored. They are not disappearing in a cyber black hole -- got the point!
*Whatever you do, keep your dignity. Make the extra effort NOW by not looking like a fool and reap the benefits later
story i heard from one of my friend, she's been attached with this guy for more than 4 months or so ... for her it feel like they're dating and the guy has the same feeling. as for me, since I've been heard the story only from this girl so i conclude that this guy is a jerk! well, if i may say this guy is taking an advantage of her. the way he treat this girl, is not like the way a gentlemen who has crush over girl. how can you say it's a date if you pay with separate bill?? and how can he's letting her waiting for him for more than an hour or more (perhaps!) it's obvious he really know that she's in to him!
what can i say to my friend (well, actually lesson learned for me as well.. indirectly) that "you're great.. but he's not interested!" ..
This one is perhaps one of the most relatable: you gather up the balls to express your undying devotion – or mere attraction- to this person only to get rejected with the standard, “Oh you’re sweet… but i can't get into commitment at this moment, all the career stuff and my family matter ...” Or worst, “But i don't want to hurt you, is like everything i do i will end up hurting you…” What sets you apart from the rest of the world is that you don’t just walk away in defeat and go for your next potential obsession; you wallow in misery and refuse to accept rejection. and this woman is allowing this guy to keep rejecting her with different words.
i'm hoping that i will not be in that position, and desperately looking for someone! i will be flattered if someone i liked add me on their FB or their BBM list or asking about my phone. but, what i have in mind is that if that guy is not giving any effort to call me on cell-phone or asking about my number... why bother? if he wants to call me, no matter what he will! i mean, come on guy is simple right?
if he likes you, he will do anything to make the girl realize he's into her isn't it? am i right?
"When we’re two balloons, and together our direction is up, chances are we’ve found the right person. Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life."
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
.. a reason ..
I’ve been walked on, used and forgotten and i don’t regret one moment of it because in those moments, I’ve learned a lot. I’ve learned who i can trust and can’t. I’ve learned the meaning of friendship. I’ve learned how to tell when people are lying and when they’re sincere. I’ve learned how to be a teenager, and how to grow up when i need to. I’ve been to hell and back a few times, and i won’t ever take what i have for granted. this is life, live it one day at a time. you never know how many days you’ve got left.
(un-known)
(un-known)
Monday, January 16, 2012
.. textuality ..
watched this movie with friends, some of them were in the melancholic feeling at that moment.while for me, well i'm in the process becoming "a better person" ..
in this movie, we would see many people loose their willingness to respect "real people" in front of them. they prefer to get "attached" with "un-real" people. for them smartphone is their life, their soulmate, it seems that they can't even breathe without their smartphone. the existence is no longer important, as long as the other people response to the device. jeezz ...
from this movie as well, i concluded that men or guy with smart phones can not be trusted *LOL* especially when they can't get their eyes of it! every time they heard something beeping or vibrate they will impulsively looking at it as if they're waiting for urgent call or text!
the most annoying one, is the one whose taking pictures for everything, yes i mean like everything, the table set, the plate, the bottle, the food, the view where they sat ... gosh GET A REAL LIFE GUYS!! in front of you is human being who needs your attention thou .. and that person is more REAL than your smart phones. :)
There's a story, that i heard from one of my friend where he got dumped through smart phone, but there's another story from a friend who got engaged because of the smart phone .. but as for me smart phone is making lots of people being rude to each other. just like when we used a social media without any ethics.
for me smart phones is not good enough to replace the one i care about, especially it can not replace the EXISTENCE of the people around me.
please do respect your REAL PEOPLE around you, put away your smart phones while you are with bunch of people i mean REAL PEOPLE ... if you want to talk with your smart phones better do it in your room instead using it in public!
friend: Sher, can we meet?
me: will you bring your blackberry?
friend: yes... why?
me: then, you can BBM me .. i don't want to sit there by looking at you busy BBM-ing other people rather than talk to me ... :)
friend: what??
sorry, i'm rude. but i made my point :)
in this movie, we would see many people loose their willingness to respect "real people" in front of them. they prefer to get "attached" with "un-real" people. for them smartphone is their life, their soulmate, it seems that they can't even breathe without their smartphone. the existence is no longer important, as long as the other people response to the device. jeezz ...
from this movie as well, i concluded that men or guy with smart phones can not be trusted *LOL* especially when they can't get their eyes of it! every time they heard something beeping or vibrate they will impulsively looking at it as if they're waiting for urgent call or text!
the most annoying one, is the one whose taking pictures for everything, yes i mean like everything, the table set, the plate, the bottle, the food, the view where they sat ... gosh GET A REAL LIFE GUYS!! in front of you is human being who needs your attention thou .. and that person is more REAL than your smart phones. :)
There's a story, that i heard from one of my friend where he got dumped through smart phone, but there's another story from a friend who got engaged because of the smart phone .. but as for me smart phone is making lots of people being rude to each other. just like when we used a social media without any ethics.
for me smart phones is not good enough to replace the one i care about, especially it can not replace the EXISTENCE of the people around me.
please do respect your REAL PEOPLE around you, put away your smart phones while you are with bunch of people i mean REAL PEOPLE ... if you want to talk with your smart phones better do it in your room instead using it in public!
friend: Sher, can we meet?
me: will you bring your blackberry?
friend: yes... why?
me: then, you can BBM me .. i don't want to sit there by looking at you busy BBM-ing other people rather than talk to me ... :)
friend: what??
sorry, i'm rude. but i made my point :)
Thursday, January 5, 2012
.. social media ..
for me to begin 2012 in my 5th day of January ... there's no ethic on social media. Gosh!! Can they stop complaining over social media? do they have any friends, where they can shared all the complains and stories?
they even posted their missing spectacle, bag, shoes, book, etc! they chose to posted over social media rather to find it! wondering, if they posted on the Facebook or Twitter will people on their list helping them to find what they're looking for? or they just want people to know they're missing something "precious" to be posted on their wall or timeline ..
I'm using those things, surely to keep me update with the trend topics and hot gossips. used those social media for my boring time while caught on the traffic (badly). at first not to much people complaining or scolding over the social media but now all i can read is complaining, scolding, or even swearing.
some of them even mentioned some name .. not in a good description. i know these days world is like "screaming out loud" to be seen! i mean, there's no ethics there's no rules! the worst case, some of them used twitter to give an "order" to other people to do their tasks!! how rude!! do they know the other technology called cell phone, emails or messenger (whatsapp, blackberry messenger, ping chat, etc) or was it to show the level of power that one person has over the other person? Man!! show some respect for other, dude!
no manner if i may say about these social network or media name it! do they even think before they write anything? some of the words is really hurtful ... cynical, sarcastic or even under-estimate statement as if that person is the only person whose has the "perfect" point of view. *sigh*
from this social media i can read people's mood. sadness, disappointment, getting hurt, heart broken, fall in love, rejected, etc. what can i assume and wonder ... if they get hurt, heart broken or being rejected would be better if they shared it to someone they trust? i mean like bestie, close friends, siblings or parents (perhaps) instead of their making an announcement "yes, i'm broken!" .. "someone just broke my heart!" .. or "un-answered hopes" i mean does it sound like desperate? or they don't have anyone to trust? -- or am i get it wrong?
i understand people has their own definition for what people call SOCIAL MEDIA or NETWORK .. and i have mine!
Tuesday, January 3, 2012
.. all over again ..
I know sometimes life itself could fall apart because of disappointments, the hurt, the lies and the un-answer hopes.
Well, everybody will have their own beginning for everything right? and they have their will to change isn't it?
actually, i can climb the highest mountain, and no one can hold me back! Sometimes, i just caught up in a crazy life that i took, so much for granted that i can't see what i have, and i knew it!
i'm pushing myself through the hardest time, because i believe i will find my way and start all over again ...
in time i know i'll find people around me who will change while times keeps on moving. friends fading away, but i'm not alone because i'm putting my trust in myself!
giving my very best, do what it takes to all i have.
moving forward, step on the next journey in 2012!
Sunday, January 1, 2012
.. 1st letter in 2012 ..
Dear anonymous,
I've gone back and forth the last few days trying to decide whether or not I should even write this. In the end, I realized I would regret it if I didn't, so here it goes. I know the last time we saw each other, we weren't exactly hitting the sweetest notes-certain wasn't the way I wanted the dinner to end. I suppose I'm responsible and for that, I'm sorry. But in all honestly, if I had the chance, I'd do it again. I owe that to you. There's no way I can repay you for another dinner or lunch in some other time. You once said you're "rare". Well, that's true-you're certainly not like everyone else, but everyone is everyone. My parents always says our lives are streams flowing into the same river towards whatever heaven lies in the mist beyond the falls. Find the joy in your life, anonymous . My dear friend, close your eyes and let the waters take you home.
rgs,
un-named!
I've gone back and forth the last few days trying to decide whether or not I should even write this. In the end, I realized I would regret it if I didn't, so here it goes. I know the last time we saw each other, we weren't exactly hitting the sweetest notes-certain wasn't the way I wanted the dinner to end. I suppose I'm responsible and for that, I'm sorry. But in all honestly, if I had the chance, I'd do it again. I owe that to you. There's no way I can repay you for another dinner or lunch in some other time. You once said you're "rare". Well, that's true-you're certainly not like everyone else, but everyone is everyone. My parents always says our lives are streams flowing into the same river towards whatever heaven lies in the mist beyond the falls. Find the joy in your life, anonymous . My dear friend, close your eyes and let the waters take you home.
rgs,
un-named!
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