.. flexible ..

.. i'm typical person who doesn't like to argue nor confront, but that doesn't mean I'd always agree to what everyone have to say.

but, when somebody can't respect my timing and on how i act i just can't help it!

"mba, kamu patungan 100rb ya untuk kado ****"
"gw gak mau .. gw maunya patungan 70rb."
"gak bisa, karena kamu masuk itungan Director"
"laahh kok gitu, gw gak mau. gw cuma mau kasih 70rb aja. lebih dari itu gw gak ikutan chip-in"
"kok gitu.."
"ya gitu lah .. gw yang nentuin gw mau patungan berapa, not the other way around!"

and she just left! I never make any fuss for any chip-in amount on anything, but this one i just feel pissed "it's been settled" well, i don't take any order from anyone especially when it comes to some amount of money!

is not that i'm stingy or what, for me this chip-in thing is like an obligation and i hate to define that obligation for this one. is not that i'm being un-considerate but the situation and condition made me like this. I never argue or confront but once i dis-agree over something even my words express it well enough.

in hope i don't have to be the person who obligate people around me to chip-in for something that definitely i can afford to own it.