.. motivation ..

I don't think of myself as a poor deprived ghetto girl who made good. I think of myself as somebody who from an early age knew I was responsible for myself, and I had to make good. -- Oprah Winfrey

I'm responsible for everything I did, I said, and even for my every actions I made. My parents often told be "What you need to know for sure is that what you give comes back to you."

.. sassy girl ..

“you know what fate is?”

“building a bridge of a chance for someone you love.”

.. story ..

I believe we write our own stories and each time we think we know the end... we don't.

everybody would love to have an happy ending, sometime the story itself doesn't have any happy ending at all! We write it, we dream it, we imagine it, and yet we WANT IT to be REAL!!

We assumed so we can get what we want, and we can get our expectation be real! MANAGING HEART is easy to hear, but to take an action of it I don't think it's easy. It will require lots of efforts not to mention our energy to manage and control our feeling! Because, the bad things about expectation sometime when it gets stronger the "hope" eventually pop up and will make us losing our mind! Instead of using our logical thinking, we used our feeling to do all the "silly" actions!

Don't be surprise, because when the result is not what we're expected; we will feel dumb, hurt, disappointed, or maybe it will become anger .. because we're having a platonic feeling. Don't be mad, don't be sad just enjoy the moment. For my experience I'm mad of myself of being so dumb, but the next day I will laugh at myself, it feels good to be dumb and laugh about it after rather than feeling dumb but feeling sorry for it.

That's why I have my own definition toward FAITH and DESTINY! Smile people!! Smile ...