I’ve been walked on, used and forgotten and i don’t regret one moment of it because in those moments, I’ve learned a lot. I’ve learned who i can trust and can’t. I’ve learned the meaning of friendship. I’ve learned how to tell when people are lying and when they’re sincere. I’ve learned how to be a teenager, and how to grow up when i need to. I’ve been to hell and back a few times, and i won’t ever take what i have for granted. this is life, live it one day at a time. you never know how many days you’ve got left.
(un-known)
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Monday, January 16, 2012
.. textuality ..
watched this movie with friends, some of them were in the melancholic feeling at that moment.while for me, well i'm in the process becoming "a better person" ..
in this movie, we would see many people loose their willingness to respect "real people" in front of them. they prefer to get "attached" with "un-real" people. for them smartphone is their life, their soulmate, it seems that they can't even breathe without their smartphone. the existence is no longer important, as long as the other people response to the device. jeezz ...
from this movie as well, i concluded that men or guy with smart phones can not be trusted *LOL* especially when they can't get their eyes of it! every time they heard something beeping or vibrate they will impulsively looking at it as if they're waiting for urgent call or text!
the most annoying one, is the one whose taking pictures for everything, yes i mean like everything, the table set, the plate, the bottle, the food, the view where they sat ... gosh GET A REAL LIFE GUYS!! in front of you is human being who needs your attention thou .. and that person is more REAL than your smart phones. :)
There's a story, that i heard from one of my friend where he got dumped through smart phone, but there's another story from a friend who got engaged because of the smart phone .. but as for me smart phone is making lots of people being rude to each other. just like when we used a social media without any ethics.
for me smart phones is not good enough to replace the one i care about, especially it can not replace the EXISTENCE of the people around me.
please do respect your REAL PEOPLE around you, put away your smart phones while you are with bunch of people i mean REAL PEOPLE ... if you want to talk with your smart phones better do it in your room instead using it in public!
friend: Sher, can we meet?
me: will you bring your blackberry?
friend: yes... why?
me: then, you can BBM me .. i don't want to sit there by looking at you busy BBM-ing other people rather than talk to me ... :)
friend: what??
sorry, i'm rude. but i made my point :)
in this movie, we would see many people loose their willingness to respect "real people" in front of them. they prefer to get "attached" with "un-real" people. for them smartphone is their life, their soulmate, it seems that they can't even breathe without their smartphone. the existence is no longer important, as long as the other people response to the device. jeezz ...
from this movie as well, i concluded that men or guy with smart phones can not be trusted *LOL* especially when they can't get their eyes of it! every time they heard something beeping or vibrate they will impulsively looking at it as if they're waiting for urgent call or text!
the most annoying one, is the one whose taking pictures for everything, yes i mean like everything, the table set, the plate, the bottle, the food, the view where they sat ... gosh GET A REAL LIFE GUYS!! in front of you is human being who needs your attention thou .. and that person is more REAL than your smart phones. :)
There's a story, that i heard from one of my friend where he got dumped through smart phone, but there's another story from a friend who got engaged because of the smart phone .. but as for me smart phone is making lots of people being rude to each other. just like when we used a social media without any ethics.
for me smart phones is not good enough to replace the one i care about, especially it can not replace the EXISTENCE of the people around me.
please do respect your REAL PEOPLE around you, put away your smart phones while you are with bunch of people i mean REAL PEOPLE ... if you want to talk with your smart phones better do it in your room instead using it in public!
friend: Sher, can we meet?
me: will you bring your blackberry?
friend: yes... why?
me: then, you can BBM me .. i don't want to sit there by looking at you busy BBM-ing other people rather than talk to me ... :)
friend: what??
sorry, i'm rude. but i made my point :)
Thursday, January 5, 2012
.. social media ..
for me to begin 2012 in my 5th day of January ... there's no ethic on social media. Gosh!! Can they stop complaining over social media? do they have any friends, where they can shared all the complains and stories?
they even posted their missing spectacle, bag, shoes, book, etc! they chose to posted over social media rather to find it! wondering, if they posted on the Facebook or Twitter will people on their list helping them to find what they're looking for? or they just want people to know they're missing something "precious" to be posted on their wall or timeline ..
I'm using those things, surely to keep me update with the trend topics and hot gossips. used those social media for my boring time while caught on the traffic (badly). at first not to much people complaining or scolding over the social media but now all i can read is complaining, scolding, or even swearing.
some of them even mentioned some name .. not in a good description. i know these days world is like "screaming out loud" to be seen! i mean, there's no ethics there's no rules! the worst case, some of them used twitter to give an "order" to other people to do their tasks!! how rude!! do they know the other technology called cell phone, emails or messenger (whatsapp, blackberry messenger, ping chat, etc) or was it to show the level of power that one person has over the other person? Man!! show some respect for other, dude!
no manner if i may say about these social network or media name it! do they even think before they write anything? some of the words is really hurtful ... cynical, sarcastic or even under-estimate statement as if that person is the only person whose has the "perfect" point of view. *sigh*
from this social media i can read people's mood. sadness, disappointment, getting hurt, heart broken, fall in love, rejected, etc. what can i assume and wonder ... if they get hurt, heart broken or being rejected would be better if they shared it to someone they trust? i mean like bestie, close friends, siblings or parents (perhaps) instead of their making an announcement "yes, i'm broken!" .. "someone just broke my heart!" .. or "un-answered hopes" i mean does it sound like desperate? or they don't have anyone to trust? -- or am i get it wrong?
i understand people has their own definition for what people call SOCIAL MEDIA or NETWORK .. and i have mine!
Tuesday, January 3, 2012
.. all over again ..
I know sometimes life itself could fall apart because of disappointments, the hurt, the lies and the un-answer hopes.
Well, everybody will have their own beginning for everything right? and they have their will to change isn't it?
actually, i can climb the highest mountain, and no one can hold me back! Sometimes, i just caught up in a crazy life that i took, so much for granted that i can't see what i have, and i knew it!
i'm pushing myself through the hardest time, because i believe i will find my way and start all over again ...
in time i know i'll find people around me who will change while times keeps on moving. friends fading away, but i'm not alone because i'm putting my trust in myself!
giving my very best, do what it takes to all i have.
moving forward, step on the next journey in 2012!
Sunday, January 1, 2012
.. 1st letter in 2012 ..
Dear anonymous,
I've gone back and forth the last few days trying to decide whether or not I should even write this. In the end, I realized I would regret it if I didn't, so here it goes. I know the last time we saw each other, we weren't exactly hitting the sweetest notes-certain wasn't the way I wanted the dinner to end. I suppose I'm responsible and for that, I'm sorry. But in all honestly, if I had the chance, I'd do it again. I owe that to you. There's no way I can repay you for another dinner or lunch in some other time. You once said you're "rare". Well, that's true-you're certainly not like everyone else, but everyone is everyone. My parents always says our lives are streams flowing into the same river towards whatever heaven lies in the mist beyond the falls. Find the joy in your life, anonymous . My dear friend, close your eyes and let the waters take you home.
rgs,
un-named!
I've gone back and forth the last few days trying to decide whether or not I should even write this. In the end, I realized I would regret it if I didn't, so here it goes. I know the last time we saw each other, we weren't exactly hitting the sweetest notes-certain wasn't the way I wanted the dinner to end. I suppose I'm responsible and for that, I'm sorry. But in all honestly, if I had the chance, I'd do it again. I owe that to you. There's no way I can repay you for another dinner or lunch in some other time. You once said you're "rare". Well, that's true-you're certainly not like everyone else, but everyone is everyone. My parents always says our lives are streams flowing into the same river towards whatever heaven lies in the mist beyond the falls. Find the joy in your life, anonymous . My dear friend, close your eyes and let the waters take you home.
rgs,
un-named!
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